Going To A Bar Alone Is Cool If It's Just Temporary. My husband and his friends will have a "guys" weekend once a year. But my husband trusts M.. Ok, I have answered all those other posts you mentioned so I will on yours as well. I guess I J. can't really imagine being in a relationship with someone that I didn't trust enough to be "allowed" to hang out with the opposite sex. No. The fastest way to see a mans true colours if he does run, even better. I am a single Mom so I am almost never without my kids. It's kind of like the idea that Facebook ruins marriages. At all. Ziff Davis, LLC BBB Business Review. But everyone has different needs, and desires. We J. like to know where the other one is, more for safety than out of paranoia or concerns of cheating. But this is volunteer. "When people start to contemplate breaking up, they tend to associate more with single people because they assume this is likely to become their lifestyle," Herring says. She doesnt mean ask permission. i dont really know how to feel about this. I on the other hand don't know a single woman who is attracted to other women. im **** off he doesnt call but should i be worried or just let it go? I tell it like it is. We LIKE being home together. We've agreed to be monogamous not by default but because it feels right for us. I had an ex bf from years ago. and i understand exactly what youre saying but when you do talk to him you have to have to bring up his drinking and your concern of him not calling. :). I don't ask many questions. So..he and I need to discuss all this, and if he's not willing to change, I may have to walk. It depends on the context. This could be a sign of cheating because he is projecting onto you. To M., that is playing with fire. My hubs knows M. well enough not to be threatened. HOWEVERI think you don't have much to worry about. Sorry - J. reality in my world - you haven't made a LIFETIME commitment to your boyfriend - hence the fact he is bf and not dh. After a couple months of dating I learned her guy friend was gay. You sill have a life and are not a Siamese twin with your spouse. He asked for nothing in return. My husband and I are a like to where he has more female friends and I have more male friends that we are closest to, thankfully it doesn't bother either one of us. When guys go to strip clubs to ogle "hot . As for what anyone else thought, it was irrelevant. :). On weekends I don't have my kids, I . maybe get some counseling or something before you make a mistake and let your insecurities get in the way. He goes with a buddy of his. But not everyone would know the difference. Do I think it's "wrong" for other ladies and men to do that? ***My hubby used to get mad when we'd be out for drinks together and he'd go to the bathroom and come back and find a guy talking to M.. He TEXTS YOU while he's OUT WITH THE BOYS?! If it was a few hours I'd be fine but he goes off grid for like 10/12 hours at a time and then texts to say his phone died, or he left it at home etc should I be questioning this? I tried to make friends with the girls, but it didnt help because when he made a comment about how good she looked in the thong, it showed no regard for me. I've lived in my little city since I was a teenager and I run into people EVERYwhere, so when I meet a friend I prefer a private location where I am better able to focus on them and our conversation. If you're insecure, you'll get upset if he talks to his family 50% of the time instead of spending 100% of it holding your hand. You can't get mad at him for spending time with his friends, just like he doesn't have the right to get mad at you for hanging out with your friends in return. It's not hard to pick up a phone even if your drunk. He is very trusthworthy and honest, etc. Help should I stay with him or not and it has been four long years that we have been together. But if you go to hang with the girls, and J. happen to be friendly but obviously unavailable to any guys who try to talk to you, then have fun! It's one thing for your girlfriend to go partying without you and another for her to go without even informing you. I feel for you too. It isn't driven by insecurity. Our relationship as a family is great, we all get along, ex-wife included. While telling him your problem just say I know its long distance which makes it hard for the both of us but I feel like I wanna talk to you more, and it worries me that you're always drinking and im afraid that there might be another girl out there. Bars are not not my scene. I really prefer dinning room tables and strong coffee though. Be In Touch with Him. It's okay to relax. My Long Distance Girlfriend won't video call with me. He would probably be pretty darn red too. you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. Granted we shouldn't keep people on a leash and there are a lot of things going on with a LDR but how can you truts someone like that? An adult, should know how to handle flattery and/or flirtations. what do I do? I'm married. Started December 23, 2022. Big difference. agirlwithnoname Now, like I said..if this changes, and he starts wanting to go more, like my bf is, and it cuts into your alone time..then yeah. Started January 23, By Men or women. So would this be not allowed in your relationship? We don't even spend that time out drinking. And I suppose it would depend on that. If your boyfriend is going out without you, it doesn't necessarily mean he's trying to end things. Do I end things? Once again, if that behavior changes, you may want to reconsider your approval of this behavior. I have also felt the "most women are bisexual" opinion to be not true in my circles. I have issues with my bf going to the bar because my ex is an alcoholic. call M. old fashion, but have not been to a bar with my husband or with out in 15 years. They are in a long distance relationship and that's not about sitting at home, missing and texting each other 24/7, gosh. I would personally feel like a prisoner if he didnt "allow" it and would find it unhealthy. I just know in my heart, I cannot be in another situation like I was with my ex, ever again. I am one of those guys who doesn't drink often so when I do I also end up on a couch somewhere but I have good friends who protect me .won't let me drive etc.. Or am I just being silly? And you allow that? He would attend the lingerie shows there and take pictures with the girls who apparently knew him by 1st name. I personally would not do that. 9. As far as I know he doesn't hug other women, pick them up or flirt with themif he did I would have a problem with that, because it's not the type of guy I'd want to be married to. I have done a few "ladies' nites" with some of the other moms from my son's school. So my boyfriend is becoming much more distant as of late. what if that guy made the relationship that way and all of a sudden wants to change the game.Vice versa? Um, no. I feel any interactions should be allowed but also feel that if you're in a committed relationship and someone has an issue with a particular person your relationship comes first obviously and while you won't be "controlled" by your spouse you should definitely take their opinion into account and compromise and adjust behavior accordingly. I can understand how those people who *enjoy* drinking, will likely go out often to do it. Go with your gut on this one. He texts you while he's out with the boys? Don't listen to the people commenting below they are giving you the advice, they "think" is right. We don't forbid each other from seeing anyone. Right now, it seems he's being attentive to your needs. Most of the time I go out with my husband, but that is because we don't get very many opportunities to be out together and so I really want to be with him. He should be calling you S. My husband doesn't like it when I go out to bars or clubs without him but if I want to go hang out with the girls every so often I can and I do go. "There's nothing wrong with getting drinks with coworkers or going out for a guys/girls night with friends," Herring says. I have no problem because I love girls weekends. I see nothing wrong with your scenarioI J. wouldn't venture into a bar alone. You could talk to him about what he wants and what you want, and reach an agreement together. I think as long as a couple is totally happy and equal that's all that matters. We are individuals sharing the same goals in relationship. I know I can trust him. The second time he disappointed me was when he got so angry at me because he had an argument with his friends. I have not a single reason to? Again I'm so worried. Yes I go out with out my husband.. if Im talking to anyone and they try to pick M. up using thier cheesy lines I let them know right away Im married. "And if . So drinking isn't something we *enjoy* doing. I like how you worded it. It is all because of my trust issue. Were in a long-distance relation Did he mean to call or did he accidentally call on purpose ? Really.? But, that's not the point of your post so I digress. We care about each other but we aren't crazy. And you will never lose the ones that love you. He does not even care if I go dancing cause he knows who I am going home to. Covering Phoenix, Mesa, Glendale, Scottsdale, Gilbert, the valley . Price: $18. If he's out with the guys, I want to know exactly where he is in case anything happens. 10. If your partner doesn't seem interested in having you involved in trip planning or is actively working on plans for trips without you, that could be a sign that something's going on,. justagirl09January 22, 2012 in Trust and Relationships. Make out you are. We recently got married and he got divorced two years and a half ago. Happy couples need time apart and to. Just stop expecting him to be your boyfriend. You have to put trust into each other. Are you his parole officer or his girlfriend? Clubs and bars are not a place for someone in a relationship unless you're there with your partner to dance, have fun, and show the world who you're deeply in love with. I have talked to too many girls and guys that bitterly recalled how one drink too many let their inhibitions lower enough that they got too huggy and hormones took over ending a relationship. If you want to keep this guy then you will have to learn to give him his freedom. Yes I go out without my husband and he without M. in mixed company. But we can do that because we are older and have an understanding of what we want out of life. Here^s what I got from what I read: 1. "met" virtually.). nah. FLirt but come home to M.. You know? No. You are going to be better off for it, and I think that rocks. I've never thought about going for a drink alone, but some of you ladies make it sound mighty tempting- going out for a pint and a good read sounds J. up my ally this Friday afternoon! I think that is how the trust goes both ways. "Breaking up evokes a lot of really strong emotions in people," Dr. Freitag explains. I occasionally go to after work happy hour with a big group of co-workers. The Desperado is a frequent fixture at the bar. So she keeps sending snapchats.. but wont text/call me. When youre in a relationship, only YOU know the rules that you have. How many people have you slept with in your life?? But its called trust. L143myself That's a different matter. The problem is every time he's with his friends, he forgets about me completely and he doesn't want other to know that he is into a long distance relationship. Luckily, we have every other weekend to ourselves when our kids are at our ex's house. I think you need to face up to that and . (and the funny thing is, in our relationship, I'm the one who's far more likely to go out by myself.). To an insecure girlfriend, she might assume guys' nights consist of heading to the strip club, then going to a seedy rub-and-tug afterward. But understand that it is an opportunity for something to happen because you are specifically putting yourself in that situation. Now, pull out the choke - but only three-quarters of the way - hit that button again. Needless to say, the abuse of such substances can negatively affect decision-making. If they're traveling for a friend or family member's bachelor or bachelorette party, for instance, you might not be invited, so leaving you behind doesn't mean that they're pulling away. Of course I do, but the first time he says "I forbid you" is the time he gets a laugh in his face. A lot. Yes, A LOT in his profession. Started February 23, By Night after Friday night, he'd ask about my week, make jokes with me during lulls in the bar rush, and never charge me for my vodka buzz. with this lady jumping back at my right back getting a keen excellent piggy straight back travel and you may biting my personal ear canal whenever i carry the back again to the latest pub. Id quit that game and never play again. Kelly1988 Yes, crazy to let someone else's actions that do not directly affect you upset you. A know a few guys who don't do that. but things he says or does make you feel bad about yourself - and you can't really figure out why. Smackin' The ex's butt toward swinging floor. Of course, you dont need to know where the other person is or what he/she is doing ALL OF THEE TIME, but just letting me know once in a while is harmless. I guess it's all in how you carry yourself. Hope your ok x. I am not sure what the inside of a bar looks like nowadays.We J. don't go anyway. Commitment has nothing to do, with restricting another person. She dumped me for a guy she met there one night. You still are a person, apart from your spouse. aweeeeeeee you're bf sounds amazing ! She went out with the girls one too many times. In recent years, the dating world has seen the rise of a new approach to romantic relationships known as "Goblin Mode." Yes I allow my husband to go out without M. no matter the gender. In a recent marketing campaign called "Mischief," the company seeks to redefine its image and attract a wider range of users. You know honestly im sure it depends on the person. The answer is to behave appropriately while there. But it got old. Also, my bf will flirt with girls, and I find out about it the next daythis doesn't make me too happy. A guy, but went home with a girl. I think this can be a real issue for quite a few people and can be very problematic adjusting or coming to grips with, even though there is no reason not to trust. He didn't let me know anything. Its putting trust into the OTHER person. I can honestly say that I never knew women were generally attracted to other women. 1. Dont fall for this my life is in the hole either. If it becomes a constant thing of going ot the bars all the time and it eats into your time with him, which is what my bf wants to do, then you may have something to worry about. To use this example: "I don't want to be . try it, be honest, truthful, and if its meant to be, its meant to be. Im in a long distance relationship myself, like we're in two different continents, it kind of ***** but its cool at the same time! He needs to tell you everything that He does ? Seriously . ? Whether they're truly checked out and just can't be bothered to end things or there's something else going on, you're likely going to have to talk about it together in order to move forward. NO. I cook for my friends (plural). blissfulblue To get drunk. Get a shock collar too so if steps out line you can zap him. You know the one that is filled with mostly guys, laid back and where everyone knows everyone and if you don't you will by the time you walk out and people cheer when you walk in the door? HE needed the excitement is what he told M.. My friends and I have often discussed how we don't "get it" that supposedly most women like women. The only time he gets phone calls is when I wake up at 3am and hes not home. We are comfortable with each other and trust each other 100%!! And my husband does not have a problem with it. Keep being yourself, good relationships are hard to come by, and people are only jealous of yours :). my boyfriend goes out all night and doesnt call or text me at all..we are in a long distance relationship and the next day he gives me excuses like i was "too drunk" and passed out. When you do that, she will want to stay home with you because she'll be afraid of losing you. I am ok with him going once a week as long as it is only guys. My friends are like family to M. and I get so much warmth and strength from them. Bars are often pick-up spots and can offer temptation for someone who's on the fence in their relationship.". Just enjoy life and enjoy the relationship, take it day by day and go with the flow. Wouldn't work for M., plus I have no desire to hang in bars. jwrunner81 Its J. not something we do. When you're young it's fun, but at 42 seems a bit pathetic. I'm sorry to say hes not worth ti. I did the club scene in college, but that kinda got out of my system too. I guess I J. don't see how going to a bar solo and getting into situations where there's lots of alcohol, music and men are hitting on you/questioning your relationship can be very good at all for your current relationship. I do the same thing for a girls night out. (Even if we've J. They might give M. a hug, but that's where it ends. I don't go by myself but when I was young and single I did. I called him at 11:30. It is trying to control each other because deep down you don't trust each other to behave in a party environment. That's different. Plus it's annoying for the fellas to have that one guy who's always checking in. Now I don't know how he would feel or a possible future boyfriend would feel. my boyfriend and i are long distance and i'm in college. If he doesn't give you the reaction your after. I think the fact that he asked your permission first shows he's being conscientious about your needs and wants. Probably. musician | 7 views, 0 likes, 0 loves, 0 comments, 1 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Gee Broadcasting Corporation: Our Guest is Kahnma Karnga. Answer: I think you'll both be happier if you let her go out with friends within reason, of course. The answer is as simple as the nose on your face. There was a promo for $5 off your next dinner if you purchased a $25 gift certificate. Fast forward to today, I had an awesome girlfriend, whom I encouraged to have her own life outside our relationship. . I have been there a few times for lunch alone to do some of my paperwork and did not want to have to cook or clean up at home. i talked to him today about it, and he just apologized and said that its he knows he;s ***** up. My problem is I'm very, very jealous when my husband goes out without me. I never expected much because I knew the type of person I was dating. First of all, guys NEED this time to well, do what guys do. Did you know that at least 4000 to 5000 of my posts were done before the thumbs up even came in. We ended up J. being friends. If they're going out far more often than they ever used to, it might not be a good sign, relationship-wise. In other words, one can never win when dating an insecure person male or female. "But if your partner has started going out more and leaving you at home, that could indicate that they've got one foot out the door. I talked to him about it and tried compromising but it just didnt work. But its not like we would go kissing others anyways but just saying So I asked him and he said the girl bit him. I'm generally surprised by how many people are against interactions with the gender you're attracted to. Maintaining organization for your electronics is very enjoyable. Traveling for work aside, if your partner tries to leave you behind, that's probably not a great sign. He will even grab people and tell them to go dance with M.. Its actually funny the looks he gets from people when he does it. I did. Most chicks out here don't go out to bars as singles. My husband HATES it!! Luckily for us both, neither of us are the 'bar/club going on a regular basis' kind of people. You wanna pay me 500 bucks an hour I can ask you as many questions as you feel like answering. evenworse But that's J. M.! AskMen, Become a Better Man, Big Shiny Things, Mantics and guyQ are among the federally I went to sleep at 11 pm and now it's 6 am in the morning and he hasn't messaged me at all. I am sorry, it is hard to deal with, i know. Wind him up make him jealous. People go to bars..why? I'm personally not attracted to women. During a casual dinner with three other couples, the guys repeatedly implored my boyfriend to go with them to a strip club. before we were married my wife went out with her friends every couple of weeks to the bar seen. LOTS of women purposely go after married men. But he lets M. dance with who ever when we go out J. so he doesn't have to get out on the floor. Your feelings are valid. I think a lot of the nervousness comes from being worried about looking like a loner or a weirdo, but when you . Anyway what are your thoughts on the above situation? The bar is really not my husbands thing, but I go out with my friends without him and he is cool with it. Looking for advice on handling a disappointing visit, She broke up with me because of my gambling, France to the US - long distance problems. Trust is arguably . Don't make the same mistake I did. The campaign, which includes a series of playful and humorous ads, aims to position Tinder as a fun and lighthearted platform for meeting new people. However, I understand about being concerned that he gets drunk, maybe has problems w/self-control.. All about the power play. You're dating or living with this good looking guy, maybe he's charming and you feel wanted . He has never given M. a reason to worry about that even if he went with females. Also we fully disclose everything before we even do something so we will ask the other. He didn't, not because he couldn't be trusted around other women, but because he was/is an alcoholic. He missed work yesterday because he got drunk and another thing is that he didn't call me all day. If I'm going to go out it will be with my SO. Did he actually love me? Of course it's important to have time away from your partner and a life of your own. He just wants you to look the other way. he just seemed super down about how his life is going, is this why i might be feeling so neglected by him? This is a question that I have asked a few women and the answer is always "mindblowing". Method 2 Keeping Yourself Occupied 1 Organize a night out with your own friends. If your boyfriend suggests that your jealousy is irrational, ask him how he might feel if he were in your shoes. Course I'm the wife who has encouraged her husband to go to the strip club with his friends for bachelor parties he knows he can get his appetite anywhere as long as he eats at home :) and I definitely reap the benefits of those rare sojourns into gyrating nekid females :). I actually encourage my husband to go out with his friends though.. That's how long I have been here. I think once you are older and in a serious committed relationship - especially if kids are involved - those days are kinda over. I don't look down upon or judge others for hanging out with those of the opposite sex. I've seen a lot of posts on here recently about whether its ok for a married or committed person to go to lunch/bar with single person of the opposite sex (or same gender depending on preference) and it had M. wondering if you guys/girls ever go to a bar or an establishment where other singles are and talk to new people? Started January 19, By No brainer. Sorry if I'm completely out of line, it's J. that I've known so many people who've ruined their relationships over situations like this. What I'd really prefer though is to go out with a few drinks with HIM! We had been friends and pen pals for years. The "Cool" way to think. That means, he wants to reassure you that a) he didn't go home with some bar floozy and b) he got home safely. At some point it stop all of us out of here undertaking 2am. If he was the type of person that wanted to hang out in bars and set that example for his child, I wouldn't have even bothered with dating him. She may be looking for love or just hungry for attention. I agree it is between the two committed people to decide what works for them! I don't say that he should stay with me all the time, but he can send me a message from time to time. Rizzoli & Isles is an American crime drama series based on the novels by Tess Gerritsen, starring Angie Harmon and Sasha Alexander as the respective title characters. xx. I don't seek them out for conversation or flirt with them. <3. Boyfriends are different than husbands. Learn to trust your partner. You still can have friends. I never told her it was on my mind but she knew that my first relationship went sour because if infidelity. this has been posted a long time ago and i hope you're not with him anymore. Um, not if you don't let it. You have a good one it appears. Me and my boyfriend have talked about how we felt several times that we trust eachother so much to the point where if i dont talk to him for three days and i know hes at some crazy parties, i wont feel so worried and we trust each other so much that we both openly said that we could kiss other people if we wanted because truly we both know it wouldnt be real and that we love each other. The alternative is to . "It likely means that they don't want you in family photos and/or on their family's mind. My boyfriend does this most weekends but worse promises to make plans with me then chooses to go out drinking instead turns off his phone or ignores me and stays out all weekend then comes running back always with excuses we spoke about this several times about how it upsets me to be waiting for him and then I hear nothing until the next day or 3 days later he doesn't even tell me half the time he is cancelling on me I don't even know where he is half the time so if it gets to that stage you are in trouble it is emotional torture. Just like the celebs when they have to kiss in movies, its nothing real, they still truly love their husbands/wives. And I understood that too because I thought it was okay to be angry, but I still don't get angry with him when I'm mad. Often she would be out till 2am or so.. .. If you recognize that your partner does these things without you, it doesn't mean that the relationship is definitely over, but it does probably mean that there's some sort of problem there. You get anxious when your boyfriend goes out because you're worried he's cheating, or that you aren't good enough and he'll find someone better. (ok i'm being nice, i think it sends that message loud and clear, because men are horny pigs :) -said with love lol.) Wear anything other than what I usually wear? That's right. Best Sex Positions to Improve Your Sex Life. People need to stop being so sketchy and selfish. but again, i think you're in a completely different place. I worked yesterday and then picked up my daughter and then had dinner and met her dad at the park so he could take her for the night. Doesn't bother M.. Now, if he were encouraging sexual relationships with other people I WOULD be bothered. Although it's good for your relationship for both your and your partner to do things without the other person, some of the specific things that they (or you) do alone can actually give you some insight into how they're feeling about the relationship. He helped make me feel comfortable in gay nightlife and, eventually by extension, being gay in everyday life. You get worried when you see your partner with someone else. Do you really want a boyfriend who drinks heavily till he passes out? That's awesome. It's his choice whether he visits strip clubs, and you're also entitled to your feelings about it. My bf lives in the same town as me but i only see him when he`s not stoned or drunk. Started Monday at 06:41 PM, By He does not drink and he does not like the smell of smoke and if he wanted to go somewere like that by himself something would be up. he doesn't drink at all and i practically never do. To us, our family is our priority and they come first. 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