So Im not a cruel person and I have loved the dogs and cats Ive owned in the past. It just became too much. When she brushes up against you there is hair on your clothes. He has OCD when it comes to his ball and is constantly dropping it in front of you demanding you throw it somewhere for him to fetch. When Fido dies in 10 years, what have they left? And I saw a post on here that another womans husband doesnt spend time with the baby but time with the dog and I really dont want that to happen. I have so was so hurt and mad at what she said to one of my friends. If its the relationship that is also at issue since this aspect of her personality never was previously know, is there someone that can keep the pet while you change your financial situation? A squishy huge wet spot that I stepped in when I went to wake my daughter up for school. Im just overwhelmed w it. I have been thinking about training (his dogs are a little older), but I know you have to set boundaries, but I think that is not going to happen. I strongly recommend reading the following article. If you can just hang in there, things will probably get a whole lot better! First, to answer your question. Go out and shoot him?!? What pisses me off greatly is, his dog has nipped my kids and I have calmy told my kids not too play rough etc. To say I should disregard so many years of love and affection because I didnt do my due diligence to makes sure she didnt sleep with her dog seems ridiculous. I vacuum and couple hours later theres more hair! This has helped me understand the situation. Its always there taking attention away from me. Compromise. People make that mistake. It barks at you when you seek to embrace her because it is telling you that your girl friend is its piece of property. And he would tell me from the couch to come give him one. Im happy as can be. I kept thinking, whats wrong with this picture? Gosh I fear that youre right :-( It does seem like my story is basically an echo of all the other stories. Yes, she is a dog. I have seen forums about SO or children having allergies and severe asthma attacks because of pets, and all these animal lovers comments are to get the SO or child allergy pills and shots but no matter what do NOT get rid of the pet and do not turn the pet to an outdoor pet. This 50-something woman who until recently had her cat living in her house for fourteen long years insisted on being the caretaker it was her idea to help us with that, not ours. But apparently it was my fault because she walked in front of me while I was looking Ina store window. I even made the dog my responsibility at times just to help us out but it does nothing but drive me mad because it shouldnt be my problem. The way she treats her dog is how she approaches life in general with no boundaries. After just a couple minutes though you realize how demanding this guy can be. Their minds arent wired that way! You grieve and then another little personality comes into your life, but suicide? Ive dreamed of owning my own indoor dog since I was very little and now that I cant, it hurts. The damn creature will go down, spend an inordinate amount of time staring at blank air, and practically doing anything but what it was crying to do earlier in the house. I left them there. I was completely unaware of the shedding/stinking issue until we moved in together 6 months ago! And ruin the home. Chihuahuas ARE demonic little beasts. A pet is still an animal!!! Unfortunately, I can give an example how you could end up in such a predicament. She hops on the couch to grab my sons favorite stuffed or toys. As soon as we leave he destroys the house. He spent a weekend and came to his senses about the dog in the bed. HOLD YOUR OWN GROUND! Or pushes him down MY bed while hers is on it.. Or pushes him always off her way or freaks out about him being always in the way. But no its ok. Because thats just innocent. Given that one of the dogs has bitten another dog before? My cat generally keeps to herself but the problem is that she has the worst meow/howl noise when she wants to go in or out. My bf refuses to train them, and it has worsened the quality of my life. Visit a shelter "just for fun.". I do not hate my girlfriends dog I am just worried about our relationship because she works so much its hard for her to start taking the steps to end the anxiety and fear and because she was wrongly crate trained as punishment its impossible to rewire the dogs brain to thinking its a safe haven. The house smells like ammonia and I cant be in that environment, my throat starts to hurt and its just disgusting. That being said, you are being selfish and cannot say live your life to keep him happy. He expected my cats locked up so his dog could take over my home. Dogs arent human in the sense that some people anthropomorphise their pets but that nauseating pet lover encourages jealous or possessive behavior that just their dog likes them only because of the way they are intentionally or subliminally raised. The other, well, really only second rate by comparison. After a huge fight among many, I laid awake all night thinking I cant do this anymore. My husband and I have always had dogs, three of them due to the three children, you know how that goes. Yeah plenty of men like well behaved dogs that arent trained by women who worship the dog like ot walks on water. Just food for thought. So, a hardwood floor is a nice alternative for the carpeted floor, and it can provide remedies for the majority of his worries. She was used to having the dog in her bed, in the kitchen, on the couch. His bad habit is getting in the sink. Dog is his bbf, his baby. Family dogs always seem more well adjusted and a lot less anxious or needy. Im not a dog person, but the dog is loving and sweet and listens well and I have no problems with this dog. Except hes getting attacked he will defend himself. Even children need boundaries and structure for a happy well loved life. they have killed children. Since my dad, also 2 of the 4 I had left passed. Im in a high security high stress job. Ask him for another month and promise to correct this behavior within that time period. The more I read about this in other blogs the more I realize its not even the dogs fault its his! HOW IN THE HELL IS THIS WORTH IT??? I had pets all my life. Now the puppy is 100% potty trained and I feel like we were on the right track but my husband said he wants both of them gone yesterday (that will never happen). So here is the problem: My dog loves animals. Do you have friends or family that might take him? I have spoken to her many times about my frustrations but she says I am overreacting and insensitive. Just put your foot down that there will be no more dogs after the current situation. The counselor told me I was jealous. But I stand by my word through thick or thin, and that was not something I was taught in my home. Right? She sits between your legs staring at you while you eat. I figure, once he manages to force me to let the dogs die of broken hearts, neglected and alone out in the backyard, then hell then start on his cats liking me more than him, so I dont love him, etc. The baby one irks me, i see dogs as dogs not as human equivalents, especially since i love children and weve (sisters/family) had miscarriages in our family so children are of high value (as they should be) in my eyes. I just had a long conversation yesterday with my boyfriend of more than ten years about my new dog. I agree accidents can happen. It has caused me a lot of stress. When I get off work it seems like he doesnt care if I am home or not. But as I sit here and read all the comments and the same scenarios I have been through, one thing does come to mind.communication. I dont understand alot of things about this situation. I started to resent her when I was outside with her waiting ten minutes for her to finally decide to go when I had so much to do for my 12 hour work day. If the mouth sores are actually, oh, acne sores (sometimes acne around the mouth is painful, ugly, and very hard to treat), thats a bacteria == but same thing, any spread of acne bacteria should be fairly rapid. I ask if has ever yelled at her or hit or kicked her or anything that she would be afraid of him but he always says no she just doesnt listen to me. Thats a normal reaction. Charlie, the next morning she said she was sorry and that evening we talked it out (lovingly and with a gentle heart) and she fully understands how i truly feel and how i received what she did that night. Im not a villain for not wanting to live my life covered in fur, and your statements are purposefully attacking people who dont side with your opinion. Youre better off without him and dont deserve that. googling the heck out of the history of the breed most positive way to get result when disciplined. Alisa, Itll be soooooooo much worse than it is now and youll wish you hadnt. I use to say to those around me, Looks like Buffy decided to go to bed. Period! His mom has 5 dogs already and this one will make a 6th! And like I said, its not that Im moving into his place where the dogs already live and we are kicking them out. He didnt know it, but his wife told him that the couple ordered their dog a burger and had the dog sitting at the table while they fed the dog the burger?? She was put to sleep 8 months into our marriage so yay no more cats. I did agree to having the dog with us because I dont like to see any animal suffer as I am too a dog lover. IT poops and pees all over the house. Its not a human being. It simply would not be tolerated. If so, necessary actions can be taken just by following your vets advice. Once the kids move out and get their own lives if they want tons and tons of pets thats great I can go visit their pets. So knowing this was a temporary situation it was ok with my partner. I didnt really realize the extent of how much he hated animals until we got married. For reference, my garden is my sanctuary and my one place I can go to relax. Read this article in order to educate yourself on how to stop a Doberman from barking. As with kitties, which Google it eventually a jr may kill the household cats (its in their breeding!!) Isnt that crazy?! Like children, her Facebook feed is full of dog posts and her friends include a long list of other dog fanatics, each egging one another on to largely imaginary dangers and an ever-expanding requirement of expensive things dogs need. If you still cannot someone, its better to interview several people and give the dog to someone you totally believe and feel comfortable with. Also I would recommend getting a male dog, the female are too much and too aggressive and much more work IMO. Like ever, even be on the bed and they didnt spend hard hours in school for nothing. How is this going to work with 2 dogs?! These people and their dogs will leave you for their pets because their pets love them. It even watches us have sex and Im kind of bothered by it. The cat now will not bury her poop and if he doesnt clean it up right away her next poop is on the floor, anywhere in the house. He trained him to use a dog litter box & always kept him in a cage ( big outdoor sized cage that he kept in extra bedroom of his house) bc the dog was never actually house trainedpees everywhere, marks territory all over the place, poops on any rug he sees, charges after people, will bite if anyone touches his ears, will actually lay in his littler box full of pee & poop.the definition of nasty & disgusting! Hes 8 years old now. He said that it had been almost a year since he was able to really be affectionate towards his wife. Try offering a compromise, such as a sleeper sofa or second bed where the dog is allowed, and she can sleep there with it if she wants to now and then (and preferably not when you guys are not getting along) If she comes back with a high and mighty attitude, you may want to consider dating a person who is better able to grasp that human relationships should take priority over a pet. I think the marriage should be prioirity number 1 and that both parties should agree on this. Just recently I traveled to where he was staying with our travel trailer and working. The husband/boyfriend can live with you until your old age. Im not a person who is fond of energetic animals in general though, which is why I prefer the quiet calmness of cats. We were the owners, the dogs did what we wanted no ifs ands or buts about it. Shes cute but not the small dog I wanted. They arent able to cook dinner when youve had a hard night. However most of the pet sites insult anyone considering turning their indoor cat into an outdoor cat. Get another dog and let them play on their own. My boyfriend acts like the dog is more than our baby at times. Dogs take a LOT of time and effort, more than most people realize. They need to sleep by themselves and be trained. Good for you! Its akin to watching out of control kids with their parents oblivious to their behavior but very transparent to an observer. The reality of relationships is, you really need two fairly like-minded people for them to be a success, at least certainly when it comes to day-to-day lifestyle. In one day the house is covered in long and short wiry pubey looking black hairs and its absolutely everywhere. She says if I do so she will leave me. In fact, thats how we ended up getting together. Ive caved for everything my husband wanted that I completely disagree with but having the dog in the bed i truly dislike. Jake- it just feels good that there are people who understand! I think you need to keep putting your foot down because you will be married soon and you have to matter. While I would choose the dog over the guy, I dont want that to happen. She also sniffs constantly. I just wish he would be nice and not threaten to throw them out the door when Im not here. i cannot be in this relationship , its really hard. Ok I get that, so I tell him where an ear plug that way we can address the barking together more effectivly. I dont dislike pets but they have their own place-my bed is not that! When I do though I will immediately recall moments during the two year courtship where I was driven crazy by her dog and by her lack of discipline. I tried to do this, but it was too much. I picked them up. My boyfriend felt that he couldnt give her to family friends bc he felt like it would be hard for the dog to switch families and he felt guilty. Why on earth do people insist on doing this??? My dog was never a fan of his dog and I dont blame her. Gross I know. Anyway, I now smoke cigarettes because Im so stressed and didnt before. There is NO excuse for a dog that bites a person!!!!! The dog is very sweet and pretty well-behaved with me. Sorry for the monologue! Ive literally slept in my vehicle with my clothes packed many times because I refuse to be humiliated and belittled over a animal. I have no advice for you and I have no idea how people have four dogs. Lucy, Im glad I offered something relatable. Shes a decently trained dog though, she knows to do her business outside, she listens after the third time you tell her and for the most part is well mannered. Happy wife, happy lifecmon he loves that dog. I too will stay away from pet owners if it comes to that point again. I live in Germany, so sorry if my gramma isnt so good. I just dont know what to do. Everything was going great while it was just my girlfriend, her dog and myself. I treat the cat better than him(see above). It upsets me greatly, we also have a 4 yr old son which the dog has bit on a couple occasions simply because the dog does not like him. My big dog is way too big to do that. I live in FL.I see diffrent varieties of dogs over here. He is the best thing that happened to me. Even after surgeries I have had, he has refused to take the dog out and I would have to with me barely able to move. They can marry their damn dogs! He sleeps in his bed not ours but still. We cant agree on where the dog can sleep, how much the dog can stay inside or even how much food to give the dog. And in the end he was the one that left me and I was finally free from that promise. He clearly doesnt want to compromise which is what relationships are all about and being his parents are dog nuts, hes lived that personality trait his whole life and has been taught by them to be that way. I dont have children and they have filled that void in my life brings forth the pivot in the issue of dogs/cats with respect to relationships between the animal and the pet owner. I tell him I cant train her, how I dont have the patience to do it, or the tolerance. With the dog hair it needs to be vacuumed every day, but I dont get to vacuuming daily. 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